One who causes others misfortune also teaches them wisdom. ~ An African proverb As we know, misfortune is a difficult experience. Betrayal, lies, deceit are all hurtful. When we dwell on the pain of misfortune itself, it will bring us down. When we decide to keep our heads up and learn from the misfortune, it brings us wisdom! Those that cause us misfortune aren't well liked, but while we may swear off never dealing with them, we can also be thankful for the lesson learned, and the wisdom gained with after dealing with them!